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Post by Moody108 » Wed Oct 14, 2009 11:47 am

I can't stand my sociology class.

this may sound trivial and silly but there's two girls in my class (of about 15 people) they are those loud obnoxious girls who shout out and voice their opinion regardless of whoever is speaking. they are the first tp play the race card if anyone dares disagree with them (i'm one of two white girls in a nearly fully asian class) I feel like a minority and just basically intimidated y them. it's daft really because i'm 20 in a month and these two girls are 17 and 19 but they make me feel so uncomfortable all the time, saying my piercings are disgusting, I had 6 on my face and have now taken 5 out. i cover my tattoos when i have sociology and i try not to wear anything too alternative to avoid their stupid remarks.

I can't tell my tutor about it because she thinks they are gods gift, they are straight A students and brag about how much better they are than the white girls but if i say anything i'll get called a racist which is ironic as my best friend in my class is Bengali.

I'm dreading going back to class tomorrow

any advice much appreciated
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Post by Stilldawn » Mon Oct 19, 2009 9:06 pm

I dont know if this should be here or somewhere else but does anyone know anything about 54s Colonial Wool? Is it wet feltable? HELP! hehe

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Post by night_wolf » Sat Oct 24, 2009 4:56 pm

Since I was little I've wanted my own pet, my sister had/has a horse and I've always wanted a house rabbit.

But I don't know what to start looking for, what breed, what food, what cages/litter trys, how much bills are..

I don't know if this is garanteed, I need to see if I can get this flat/house for july. But any information on different breeds/food/health care would be brilliant as I know theres alot of rabbit handlers on here! :D

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Post by Freakonaleash » Tue Nov 03, 2009 1:43 pm

my problem is something that has been reoccuring recently. I have been doing driving lessons since january- i didnt do lessons between june and late september due to being home for the summer-
my lessons have just hit their '60th' mark and to be honest im getting fed up,ive spent near £1000 on lessons and yet my instructor says im not test standard and at the moment im starting to think it is down to him. I can drive on the roads fine (a little bit of hesitation every so often) and i can do 1 or 2 manouvres but he isnt teaching me enough with the rest of the manouvres, when i mention doing more manouvres in the lesson we only end up doing 3 or 4 before the end of the lesson.

My instructor is a nice person most of the time, but recently he has been stressed and seems to take it out on the pupils and put down our driving- doesnt help with driving confidence! He has been saying he wants to give up being an instructor coz he isnt making any money.......
So my main question here is do you think he is just trying to keep his pupils on to make money?
(baring in mind he has a high pass rate and he has had alot of students pass within 30 lessons recently).

After i have finished this block of 10 I am considering going elsewhere but other than not having much money to afford another 10 im scared of telling him im going elsewhere (which makes me a complete whimp!). My mum suggested doing a crash course when i go home for the christmas holidays.

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Post by PirateQueen » Mon Nov 16, 2009 2:00 pm

Hello all. Am having quite a lot of problems in my life at the moment and would really like a bit of input and advice, and as I know some of you have experienced similar things, I thought it wouldn't hurt to ask.
I think I'm suffering from quite severe depression. The last couple of months have been horrendous, I can't get to sleep at night, I cry all the time - sometimes I don't even know what I'm crying for, I don't want to go out or see people because I know I could start crying at any time. I have no interest in things, can't concentrate and everything just seems so hopeless. I just feel like I can't cope anymore and when something comes up that I have to deal with I start to panic,my heart seems to race and I feel out of breath. I went to the doctors on Friday, she gave me a questionnaire to fill in and return on Thursday at my next appointment - she did mention counselling, but I don't know if I can wait that long as I know there is a really long waiting list in this area. Or even it will help as when I try to talk to people I just feel worse.
I don't know if I can go on for much longer, as my everyday life is quite demanding and stressful - I'm bringing up two boys on my own and my youngest one is disabled (just in the process of being assessed as being on the Autistic Spectrum). My children's dad is constantly causing me grief - we split up 3 years ago after many years of abuse and heartache, he's allready left me with loads of debt and to top it all I'm now being accused of benefit fraud as he's been using this address without my knowledge so the benefit agency think he's been living here.
I'd like to move away from the area I live in so I can get away from him but can't see a way to do it, as it would mean uprooting my children, particularly my littlest one who doesn't respond well to change at all and has special educational needs, so moving him to another school would be too disruptive.
I just don't know what to do anymore - I'm at my wits end. I'm worried my doctor will just brush it off and fob me off or think I'm exaggerrating but I just feel awful and hopeless.
Any advice of any sort would be very appreciated. Please PM me if possible.

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Post by Lilinth » Wed Dec 02, 2009 12:33 pm

Just looking for some quick advice, i'm going to a club on friday and wanted to wear knee high boots, but i got a tattoo on the inside of my lower leg last friday and i'm wondering how likely damage will be if i wear them

would putting a surgical dressing like this http://www.oncallmedicalsupplies.com/ac ... _1693.html over it be safe? i've used this type of plaster before and it pretty much welds to your skin and is 100% waterproof
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Post by Bomber » Thu Dec 10, 2009 4:24 am

My housemate's snoring is getting beyond a joke now, I can hear it through earplugs like I'm not even wearing them.

We've told him he snores, but all he ever does is apologise - apologies aren't going to get back the weeks of sleep I haven't had because of it.

How can I get him to go and see a specialist about it? He really doesn't seem to want to do anything about it.

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Post by Antikia » Wed Jan 13, 2010 10:55 pm

This may be the wrong place for this, if so I'm sorry and would like to know where it gets moved to or if it's deleted:

TLDR; Are cyberdogs sizing accurate? Are their pants made to be a tight fit and sit high or around the hips?

I wanna order clothes from cyberdog but I've run into a problem with their sizing, for tops and such I'm a size small like I am with normal clothes, and for pants I usually fit a size 38 (europe), but I'm a bit worried now, since I wear my pants around my hips and I have a tiny bit of love handles, not much but some so I figured instead of using my waist size as a guideline (I never wear pants that high) I'd measure where I know I was gonna wear my pants, BUTBUTBUT that makes me a size L! I've never worn anything size L before and I don't wanna get clothes that are way too big so I come to you ladies for advice. Also, the pants I want don't even come in size L :/

How do you usually determine what size to order from cyberdog? I don't want them to go above my navel, my pants have to be below my belly!

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Post by Toots » Sun Jan 17, 2010 12:34 am

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Post by zaahn » Sat Jan 30, 2010 7:46 pm

Had my nose pierced a last week and managed to knock it out and cant get the stud back in! Bad times! I've put a straight labret bar in it (cos the stupid curvy nose stud just wont go back in :() but im wondering if this'll be okay until the piercing studio opens on Monday? Any advice would be awesome - i've looked at youtube vids but I think with the swelling the original stud just isn't long enough to come out the inside of my nose before it needs to turn, if you get me. I've got an 8mm labret in it and it only just comes out.

Any advice via PM would be awesome as im basically wandering around with a labret stud in my face the wrong way round! lol Personally i'd prefer to have the labret in cos its more secure and I know it wont fall out but i've no idea if its suitable for a fresh nose piercing. Thanks in advance for any help :)
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Post by Freakonaleash » Tue Feb 02, 2010 9:24 pm

My problem is possibly something that could tear me and my bf apart;

I was meant to be photographing his cousin martins wedding in april-i was asked by his cousins gf Tina. A few weeks after she had asked me she told me they couldnt afford a photographer so were going to take their own photographs.
Last friday i found out she has booked someone else. I was upset by this and rightly so because she wasnt honest with me- when the honest thing was she actually wanted me to do it for free but didnt tell me that. I told her it was an unfair way to do it. She took what i said out of proportion and accused me of being nasty and childish and pathetic.
havent spoke since saturday so i thought it had all blown over so i have just left it.
She has text me tonight saying if i dont say sorry im uninvited to the wedding. I have said i do not feel like i need to say sorry therefore im not going to simply because i did not say anything hurtful,spiteful,nasty or abusive,no foul language was used. Martin wants me to come to the wedding but is respecting her decision because its her day.

I have told my OH what has happened but havent had a reply yet (he sleeps when he gets in from work). Ideally I would like him to phone his cousin because anything i say to Tina isnt getting through, I am really upset by all of this because i thought she may have been grown up about it (she is nearly 30 afterall), I still like her and my opinion doesnt change about her and ive told her that. All of my OHs family and friends are going to be there and it is honestly deeply gutting that she has done this especially as me and Martin get on well.

I just dont know what to do now, i feel like this is going to come between me and my OH because he is too laid back and doesnt tend to have opinions on anything.

*edited to add lastest update**
I have been receiving texts from her almost every day this week harrassing me about not apologising to her and shes purposely trying to make me feel guilty...the thing is she is going on so much that im starting to feel guilty for no reason when i shouldnt be, im starting to feel really down because of it and my OH doesnt seem to understand.frustration!!!
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Post by space_monkey » Thu Feb 04, 2010 11:42 am

AGORAPHOBIA--- OK. I have a wonderful boyfriend, who was an agoraphobic when i met him. Slowly, with MUCH support and encouragement he recently has been able to leave the house.. and go out to certain places with me. It took us 6 months untill he could visit me at my house and properly stay over without having a panic attack and going home at 3:00am in the morning. As a result of him being house bound for a year, he has lost much of his social skills and is unable to judge what is socially acceptable anymore. DOES ANYBODY KNOW what i can do as a girlfriend to help?? The majority of his friends have abandoned him because they are sick of him not being able to read their body language and signs ect and pushing things to far. PM me please!!!

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Post by M1ssBehaved » Mon Feb 08, 2010 9:22 am

Nipple piercings - I have both my nipples pierced. The first one was 2 years ago and the second one was about 3 months after that. They were both done in the same shop but by different piercers. Anyways the first piercing is still discharging fluid, getting crusties and has this little fluid filled bump that comes up next to one side of the bar. The second piercing is totally fine - healed and never flares up. The first piercing is never played with, while the second piercing does get some rough play, so its not like its just flaring up because of that sort of thing.

So what I was wanting to know is should I take the first piercing (the one that is problematic) out and get it redone at a later date? or leave it in and give it a bit more time to fix its self up?
And If I did end up taking it out and getting it redone is it likely to be any different the second time round?

Any advice? Share your experiences :?:

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Post by mighty_boosh_fan » Sat Mar 27, 2010 10:05 pm

I am so worried I think my boyfriend is going to split up with me.
We have been together for just over a year and we live far apart from each other long distance relationship.
We see each other as much as we can and when we are not together we keep in touch through phone/text/msn/skype.
For a good 9 months now he has been saying he will get and job in my town so he can move down to be with me thing is he is not making the effort and I really have to nag him to look on the jobsite and at times it has caused arguements but we have always made up in the end.
He is ment to be coming down to see me at easter {right now im not 100% sure this will be happening} the last few days a job has come up at a local casino I've had to keep on at him about applying for it {they require you to phone them} I have told him to ring up and he might be able to get a interview for when he is down here.
Ok yes he did do this but it was only after I kept on at him {he said he would phone them today before work} also he had to do it from his work {he was able to do this after his boss went home, he works for a small off licence} since then I have been getting texts from him saying that he is fed up of feeling miserable!?!

any advice, please PM me thank you

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Post by night_wolf » Sat Apr 10, 2010 9:11 pm

Right here goes.

In a year I'll have left uni, I'll have got my degree and thats it.

But I've been having help from the parents, without them I wouldn't have been able to support myself at uni without working a good amount of hours a week (Basically student loan go against what your parents earn, if they earn quite a bit, student loan assumes you get the money from them.) given I do a hands on course having a job has only really been practical during holidays. Anyway back to the point.

I wanted to do an mART, a weird masters that attaches to my course, making it four years, I spoke to my mum and realised that after this year at uni I won't be getting any help.

Which really is fine, I didn't expect them to help, I just wanted to see if it were possible.

But this also now means I have to completely support myself as they mentioned they'd be moving when I finished, so I'll have to find a full time job in gaming whilst at uni and somewhere to live.

I just wanted to see if anybody had any advice, I'm all pretty clued up about how to live by myself and stuff, but where do you start with these things, how do you get yourself independent after university?!
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Post by Bomber » Mon Apr 19, 2010 3:55 am

I could do with any advice and tips on coping with hypermobility. My joints have got hugely worse recently - I can barely grip a pen my hands are so weak and my entire left leg is mostly out of action due to twisting my ankle and partially dislocating my knee again. I've been taking painkillers but they're not doing a great deal, so any other tips on reducing pain and coping with it would be greatly appreciated :)

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Post by tazzyface » Mon Apr 26, 2010 8:51 am

I hope this is the right place to post this...

For a few years now I've had my eye on a pair of Demonia Stack-301s (you know... these boots). They fit the criteria of being huge, high and very attention-seeking. Everything that I look for in footwear :P

I do however have large calves, and even though I'm losing weight, being a giant means that I'm always going to have larger measurements than shorter people, and these boots don't have adjustable laces or buckles, nor do they look stretchy. My question is, does anyone here own these boots, and would they be able to measure the calf circumference for me? Every seller I've asked hasn't bothered replying, and my extensive search of the internets has proved uninformative thus far. Thanks to anyone that can help :)
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Post by starlotus » Thu May 06, 2010 4:17 pm

Don't know if there's already a BC-ish thread, if so, sorry, I did search.

Was wondering if any of you ladies had any experiences/advice to share about coming off hormonal BC and/or starting to use the IUD.


I've been on hormonal BC in some form or another for over 10 years now (currently on the Nuva Ring for the past 5 years) and I have my appointment for my annual poke-fest with my GYN on Monday and I'm seriously considering stopping the hormones. It makes me uncomfortable to think that my body hasn't had a break from this for so many years, and I've had problems with nearly complete destruction of my sex drive (sorry if TMI) that I just accepted as something I'd have to deal with until it cost me my last relationship (which was really a blessing in disguise, so all good) and now that I'm supposed to be entering my "prime" (30s approaching, whoo hoo!) I feel like I don't want to have that hanging over me.

Since I'm not in a relationship right now and don't plan on being sexually active for quite some time (I want to take some time away from my usual serial-monogamy to concentrate on myself, career, school, etc.) I may just go off the BC all together. It makes me nervous, not sure why since I'm currently abstinent, probably just a mental thing since I've been on it so long, although I have been reading stuff on the 'net about gaining weight, weird moody stuff, and almost "detox" crappiness while the hormones come out of your system and wonder if anyone has had a similar experience.

Also, I'm looking into the IUD as either a soon or in-the-future BC option (the copper one, not the hormonal kind) and I know that form of BC is a LOT more common in Europe than in the U.S. so I thought some of you ladies might have some advice on that as well. Pretty much all I'm reading online about Paragard is a bunch of horror stories with the occasional good experience sprinkled in...but we all know that people with some messed up story to shout about are far more likely to post their experience online than someone who is quietly content so I don't know exactly what to make of that. I'm 95% sure I don't ever want children, but not sure enough to go the sterilization route (not that any doc would do it anyway since I'm so young and haven't had a child yet) so an IUD seems like my best option if it's not as horrifying as the stuff I've been reading makes it out to be. Also, I'm not sure if I want to go off the hormones and just give my body a break until I'm in a committed relationship again and THEN go with the IUD (if I decide to go with that at all) or if I just want to do the IUD right now - because I read that most of the crappy side effects lessen after 6-12mos, which would get all the ick out of the way and have me ready to go when/if I get into a relationship again (if that makes sense). Either way I feel like I have to prepare my body for some kind of horrible trauma and I'm really anxious about it.

I'm going to talk to my doc on Monday, of course, but I always feel like docs have some kind of agenda, or else try to rush you out the door and not really listen to you, so I was hoping some of you on here might have some real-life advice to give. The more informed I am, I think the more comfortable I'll be when I eventually make a decision.

Sorry for the novel of a post, if anyone has any advice to give please PM or email me at xxstarlotusxx@gmail.com. Thanks :)

P.S. sorry for putting this in the wrong place at first.

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Post by miss_mortisha » Wed May 19, 2010 7:45 pm

IM just wondering if anyone on here suffers from PND?

I know that there are lot of yummy mummies on this site so im guessing some of you must have suffered at some point.

I am really struggling right now, and any advice on how people coped would be amazing.

Thanks guys x
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Post by mural » Sat May 29, 2010 12:17 am

Hi there guys,
Sorry, this will be written chaotic and bad English probably.
I have few problems currently, and no one to talk to about them. :roll:
In few words, I broke up with my boyfriend about two weeks ago. We were together for ca 10 months, thou we used to be together before. I was the one to speak out loud about the problems we had for the last few months ,and finally I was the one to dump him ,thou the situation was having effects on both of us. We were fighting all the time ,he was aggressive sometimes ( not strictly to me ,because I wouldn’t stand that ,but to my cats ,other people and so on).
Due to my childhood I just cant stand violence . I told him countless times to relax ,to just give it up and not even one time he’d listen to me. That was the time I decided I’ll break up as soon as I finish studying to my very important exams. That time I used to get up and sit alone with my books ,studying until late night /early morning so we wouldn’t practically see each other. That wasn’t a bad thing back then ,sometimes I even started to wander if I"m not making it all up ,but these kinds of situations happened again and again. I left for my exams ,while he wouldn’t even drive me to the train station. Anyway I were there for about two weeks ,living at my mum’s and it wasn’t bad. All the time I thought everything will be ok if I dump him.
After my last exam we met. I wanted to tell him everything that evening because I was so tired of thinking about it all the time that I just wanted it to happen.
Surprisingly ,it came out that we’re meeting another friend of him and heading to a party.No time to talk such things now .. so I decided to tell him next time we’ll be meeting.We went to a party that surprisingly was extreme fun. Great music, great beer ,great people but in the back of my mind I still had those”we’re over” words.. but I didn’t said anyting about it thou.
There was this one interesting guy there.Really my type but a )I was still officialy in a relationship at the moment b) he wasn't paying any attention to me. AT ALL. That was so sad. That made me want to know him even worse!
I may have been cought talking with this interesting young man later on during the party but my not yet ex and his friend decided to leave. I was very angry but oh well ,went with them,
I haven’t seen him since that time, don’t really even know how to get in touch with him.Don’t even know If he has a girlfriend :/
Of course I broke up with the earlier boy so I could even talk to him or something another time I see him but …. The thing is I really really like him and he doesn’t seem to be interested in my at all – at least from what I've saw :( I really dunno what is the problem here ? I do not expect every man in the universe to fall in love with me but hey ,my complexes aside I know I look good - pretty face ,big tits ,maybe just too much ink is putting him off my ? or Im just not his style. Whatever.
The point is : I am really happy I broke up. Felt really free and was having excellent fun when I went for couple of days to my friends who live outside my city.But now I;m feeling more and more attracted to this boy which is leading me to thoughts about what is wrong with me ;also holidays started and I have nothing to do ,all of my friends or have their own lives and are busy or just don’t give a fuck about me and I can;t afford to travel alone.Now it seems that only thing to do is staying at home and watching tv,which will surely drive me to further depperssion and that is something I don’t want to screw up since I;ve been feeling so much better lately , I just want to go out have fun ,find friends and be happy about myself :)
I doubt any sensible advice can be given here but if so – please let me now. I ‘m getting really upset and depressed and in heavy need to talk to someone.
Please PM or email me asztoret@o2.pl

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Post by darklove » Tue Jun 08, 2010 7:31 pm

hey people i need some adivce on how to deal with a customer. ive had a girl who has orderd 50de dreads from me and 15 of the to have vines and flowers on them plus she was comeing for a installe. the promble is shes keeps on moveing the deadline of when she wants them done by and installes . shes was comeing on the 21 of june then she moved that to the 17th now shes wants them done on the 12th. i did tell he befor she orderd that it would be a four week waite . the thing is she has only paid for half the order . i just dont know what to do .

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Post by SuperCollider » Fri Jun 18, 2010 10:32 pm

My boyfriend wont wash.
Im typing this while i take a break from changing my bedding that was clean on before he came over... He seems oblivious to general personal hygeine! Its getting ridiculous.. i have to tell him to change his underwear, or brush his teeth, otherwise he wont do it for weeks :O

But I just feel really nagging, how can I proove to him that its gross and im not just being... clean?

He had a bath on monday... spent wednesday-friday at mine, with the hot weather/sweating and spilling numerous things on himself (AND in his big bushy beard), and im doubting he had a bath when he went home today ... its disgusting is it not? I try to not be a nagging mother type person, but if i dont, he'll happily wear the same boxers and socks for over a week, and maybe only brush his teeth twice in the time. I love him to bits, but sometimes i just cant stand to hug him or kiss him :(

Im staying at his for the weekend, is it worth bringing it up with his mother?! I dont know what to do anymore, any advice is welcome, I want a nice clean boyfriend that isnt possibly riddled with germs and grime :( I dont know how to handle it!

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Post by Freakonaleash » Wed Jun 23, 2010 2:17 pm

My Graduation is in 3 weeks and my otherhalf still hasn't found out whether he has the afternoon off or not- baring in mind he asked for the afternoon off back in early march and they said they would let him know by mid-may.
He reckons that he keeps asking and they keep saying they will follow it up. I really want him there as it is really important for me, so do I phone his company myself and find out what is going on or do I just keep nagging him about it like I have done for so many months now and pray that he gets an answer soon

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Post by luvplacebo » Tue Jun 29, 2010 7:26 pm

So, two weeks ago I booked my next tattoo for this Monday coming. Today my mum goes to me we're definitely going on holiday in like September time which means I will be in a bikini. So far no problem except yesterday she turned round and said if I ever get a tattoo I'll be kicked out of the house, I've already got one but it's pretty tiny. The script however takes up most of the length of my ribs so its going to be pretty noticeable.

If I wait til after the holiday she's likely to be on the lookout for them once she sees my thigh and if I tell her and she bans me from doing it I'll probably still get it soonish anyway so I'd be going behind her back.

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Post by Miss Liberty » Tue Jul 06, 2010 5:27 pm

Removed due to wonderful help. Thanks! I found what I was looking for!

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